Thank you for the info. I know you are correct....it just really hurts right now. I am working out vigorously right now and getting back into shape. We have already worked out a visitation plan for the girls. I know they are unhappy with both of us right now. I know you are right.....there is no answer for winning her back. I have been told to just stay away from her other than communication about the girls. I just pray that one day she comes back.
Thank you for your advice. I will definitely work on myself and my relationship with my girls. I get to see them twice a week and every other weekend. One last question. What do you think about her signing a lease on an apartment? I would think that her moving in with her family or friends would be one thing....but signing a year long contract...that is totally different.