Hi, I received your reply about the counseling but I also replied to you with another question. Did you receive that please?
It's OK. Your answer was really helpful and we have sort of been trying this approach with the parents. The problem is the the conflict is now between myself and my parents as they, especially my mother, keep saying that my husband is awful and I married into the wrong family. They are expecting me to take their side on everything and are trying to make me "realize" that my husband is evil. How do I deal with this problem? I love my husband very much but sometimes I do not know whom to believe. Also, my husband was called names by my father (my father already apologized) and till this day my husband can't live it down, making it hard to go to my parents' house for any sort of celebration. My parents basically make me feel like a terrible person for not taking their side and siding with the evil, i.e. my husband and his family. This is beginning to take a toll on our marriage because I don't know whom to believe.