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Experience:  35 years of experience as a Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor, National Certified Counselor and a college professor.
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We have relationships, if something interferes or happens we

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We have relationships, if something interferes or happens we may have to work on it to solve the problem(s) to save or keep the relationship. Can you tell me what may affect
a relationship so that it can not continue or be repaired, either the level of event or an example of an event, one of the least serious ones that would do that? In a relationship where there are two people involved, spouses.
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Dear friend,

You question is very vague.

If you want to solve it you must listen, NOT be defensive, be reasonable in tone and body language, do not use harsh words or accusations or say things you wish you never said.

You must not make ultimatums or threats. You must never use physical violence or threatening gestures, including screaming. You must never try to be vengeful.

You must show kindness and patience. You must be forgiving with out expecting forgiveness.

If one is cheating then he or she must stop and END the affair if they are intent on trying to fix their relationship.

Follow the Golden Rule: Do unto others as you would have others do unto you.

That is the best rule, in a nutshell.

I wish you great success.

Warm regards,

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