I have meet 2 guys online and I am trying to weigh my options here. One uy named is Alfred and he seems like a charmer and he is sweet. but he dates a lot of woman we have meet 2 times in a 3 month time span. The other guy Louis seems like a true gentleman and told me about 3 months ago, he was married, so I stop contact and 7 weeks ago I started back talking to him he says he is divorce now. Honestly, if Louis would have been divorced when I met him I probably would have never continued to date and meet other men. So now I told him I need proof of his divorce. I still am keeping my options and have joined a matchmaker service. How do I managed dating these guy s and find the right one. Also, I have a 2 year which is why I barely have been on any dates, but if I meet someone serious enough I am sure I will make extra time for him. Please help . I am talking to other guys too, but have don't always have time to talk or see them all. So I am trying to narrow down my search. Trying to find the right guy to a have term relationship possibly marriage.
yes..I would have
he was separted for 8 years as he put it before I came along
I am physically attracted to him, but I like him
am not I mean
I need to make sure he is divorce first..I even sign up for a matchmaking service will have the interview today to see if I qualify for it
how do I handle this
ok. if he is divorce should I start dating Louis more..until I know for sure what I want
I think it will be good because I will have someone who will help find s good match
so should I do both until a true commitment os made
ok..I will spend time with Louis soon my daughter will be visting her grandparents out of town for a couple of weeks.
I also just want to make sure I don't waste any money on matchmaking services never done this before.
littlew nervous about that but fine men online are not always truthful too
I rather the old fashion way of meetin someone
face to face
ok..I will give both a chance