I read so much about "no contact" - but that does seem to be the most "mature" approach.
Yes. I think I'll wait a few weeks yet (I'm also very busy) then contact him by email to ask him how he thinks we could give it - Generally you're suggesting we could sign the card together? (I guess my imagination has him off with another woman by now! - but that could be my imagining. . .)
Thank you Jen - Yes. That makes sense to me too.
Very good service!