It sounds like you are sticking around because you are afraid of how she will manage the breakup, not necessarily because this is the best situation for you. Is that right?
So, you are worried about going to school and not knowing anyone there? Have you thought about the impact of having a depressed girlfriend in college that you don't really want to be with? That could really start you out on a bad foot there.
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No, not knowing anyone doesn't frighten me at all. I make friends easily. I havent put much thought into having a depressed girlfriend either for the fact that she isnt currently depressed. That was just in her past, the reason I said it was because IF I did end up breaking up with her I'm positive she'd go back to her depressive self which is something I would never want for her. I want to keep her happy as can be.
Oh, okay. I understand. Thanks for clarifying. It seems that you both care about each other. As long as she makes you happy then staying in the relationship makes sense but I would advise against staying if it is with the thought that you want to break up but fear that you can't. Then you will feel resentful and that will not be good for either of you.
I understand. She does make me very happy its just not being able to talk as much has worn me down a bit i guess. Hopefully that changes soon though, anyways thanks for your help.
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