Thank you for your response. I agree. This is obviously not just about a work presentation (and I told him that). I do feel used by him but this was obviously not the way to broach that subject. I guess I am not sure what to do now. I'm pretty sure he doesn't want to speak to me right now so I will give it some space and maybe reach out in a month or so. At the same time, I have been a very good friend to him (I even helped him get a job with my agency which he left for a better offer after only a month--hurting my reputation).