I meet this guy online maybe a month ago. He seems pretty nice and I meet him once briefly he is not that attractive but seems like fun companionship. Last night we talked on the phone, and he tells me at the age of 39 he has never been in a relationship. I explained to him most of my ex bf 's asked me to be in a relationship and he was in shock . I explained to him that normally if the guy and I dating exclusivity that by the 3rd month he will asked me for a relationship by then. My friend dates around a lot, so I don't expect anything serious from him. he goes to church with a female friend once a week for bible study and always talk about different woman in my presence and smoking weed. I do want a relationship one day soon, should I continue to talk to him on phone knowing this is not going anywhere, He asked me out and said w will think of something. is he a commitment-phobia or player? I do have a 2 year old, so I have not even tried to schedule any time with him, but I did explain that my 2 year will be staying 2 weeks with her grandparents this summer also. I make him schedule all the dates. Should I continue to talk to him daily even though I know I will have to keep my options open for a man that wants a relationship. My friend normally contacts me daily and every night before he goes to sleep. He calls me baby, but he calls all his female friends baby.