Deardebra : Thank you for your question.
Deardebra : Some times it only takes one women to change a man to get him to have a commited relationship.
Deardebra : People often find the one person that they are meant to be with and they make that commitment.
Deardebra : Even players fall in love and realizes that they can not live without the person.
Deardebra : The only thing is he is 39 and has never been in a relationship, that is not someone that has been hurt by a past relationship. Some times people do not commit because they had their heart broken before. But this guy just has not found the right person to spend his life with, but some times people feel like they should not make a commitment because maybe something. in their childhood. Some people
Deardebra : have a bad opinion of marriage because their parents might have got a divorce.
Deardebra : Which causes the wrong perceptioin of marriage.
Deardebra : They feel like they should always live the single life.
Deardebra : I am not sure if he really understands how dating works and the commitment of it.
Deardebra : I would get to know him a little better and see where he stands. He also could be just saying these things because he doesn't want you to think that girls don't like him. Some times people make things up just to try to impress someone or they some times think by saying they have never been in a relationship that you migth try harder to be in a relationship with them.
Deardebra : It also is a good way for you to tell him about past relationship and him not to talk about his because he said he was not in a relationship.
Deardebra : Maybe he has not been in a relationship because he has never been ready.
Deardebra : I would still talk with him and get to know him first.
Deardebra : Thanky you again for your question.