I hope you can help
but when you love somebody you want to be together
Ido that too often
that's what i always ask for but he has so many commitments
he's the direcor responsibile of a basketball school
I did that
he said he said he's sorry
that it's this way
I'm scared of everything now
last Mon I wrote to him telling him
I know that as you told me when you're not well you close up but even I'm not too well and I would have preferred to be next to you even just holding your hand
but after that text he answered
he said I am tired of hearing you say the same things. I know how a relationship should be. Evidently I either do not love you enough or else I'm not yet ready for a relationship. Try to be patient or let's just stop here
Try to be patient if you love me and as you have always showed me
sorry these were his words
if you love me as you say and as you have always showed me, be patient or let's just stop here
I answered I have alwaysbeen patient and you know it
so how should I act be distant.After he wrote that, in the evening he called me as though nothing happened
I thought of just starting to go out more and not stay home waiting for him to call
it's hard but I must. He must see that other men look at me
so is it good that I go out so that he will start worrying
or will he think that I don't love him anymore
But do you think he really loves me and will eventually decide what I really am to him
let's hope it will work out....on Sat is my feast day and he always thinks of me and gives me a gift.I will not accept to meet him for a few minutes,,,and will say that I have made plans for the evening and if he wants he can join us
But one last thing, when will he decide and introduce me to his friends as his girlfriend and not just a friend?
Thank you!!!!!hope it won't take months
so it will not be soon?I'm tired of waiting for him to decide what our relationship is
it's things i've always told him
to open up,
cause i felt i meant nothing
he sid that i'm in his life and that i'm important
To dear XXXXX only....
Hi just wanted to ask what you think of the situation...
Yesterday was my feast day and the guy I love sent me a text at midnight wishing me a happy feast and that I should be made a saint for the life I conduct and even because I endure him. Then he called me in the morning...then came home with a present and 2 red roses from his garden. I was over the moon.Made coffee and my 20 year old daughter came to greet him, they talked a little as she's a pianist. Anyway it was great! After he left my daughter decided she wanted to make pizza and asked if I'd like to invite him and some other friends. As I knew he was busy I was quite reluctant, but sent him an sms and he said he would confirm later. Well to put t short there was a misunderstanding as when he called and said he could make it at about 9.30pm, I said not to worry if he couldn't make it cause my younger son was going out but didn't explain well cause the match was about to start so we cut. Honestly I had understood that he would have called. So at 10.15pm texted him saying that they had waited for him up to now and I was going out in an hour dancing with friends.He answered that he was home and had understood that it was called off and to enjoy myself dancing.I then called him and he was immediately nervous cause I said that he would have called after the match. Anyway I then managed to make him see sense that it was just a misunderstanding and that it was my fault too for not calling him. Well honestly we talked again today but I saw him sort of distant again.Why does he do that? I would love to see him even for a few mins today but would not dare stress him cause I don't know what were hi plans for today. Is all ok? Please tell me
For Deardebra only..... But honestly do you see us together?Will he open more with me?I love him I know it, I'm ready to be patient but I don't want to get hurt either....I'm dying to text him later with some excuse...such as is Antonio's open this evening (he's the guy that works at a restaurant who he knows) as we planned to have a pizza there with 2 students of mine....
Or should I just play it cool?I explained this morning that I didn't enjoy myself at all last night and left after an hour cause felt out of place, not the right music for me to dance and the people there seemed as though all they wanted to find a partner. Then I even explained about a friend of mine who found out she has breast cancer. Infact I explained how grateful we shoud be and that life is short and we must appreciate moments of happiness( didn't tell him that it was happiness i felt when he came over yesterday)
I know I am driving you crazy but please please do tell me if I should really believe in this relationship if it is one. Will he change and try to include me or will it always be the same, his commitments first? I have patience but only if he puts some time aside for me.
I know I am driving you crazy but please please do tell me if I should really believe in this relationship if it is one. I feel good with him, he makes me laugh and when he's not well I just want to be with him.Will he change and try to include me with some of his activities or will it always be the same, his commitments first? I have patience but only if he puts some time aside for us. Please let me know. You said that he's taking time cause he wants to be sure, but it will blossom...will that take months or will it be soon?
For Deardebra only
Let's hope it's as you say....even though he shows he cares for me the words he had written to me nearly 2 weeks ago that he either doesn't love me enough or is not ready for a relationship yet, still echoes in my head.He had said this when I had asked him not to close up when he was not feeling well. I had also explained that even I was not well and I would have loved to be close to him even just to hold his hand.Tomorrow afternoon he's going for the weekend with members of an Association to a an amusement park and staying overnight where all members take their family and friends. It hurts that he plans everything with friends but nothing with me. He could have asked me to join them.Why does he never include me. For me this means he doesn't miss me enough. I have decided that if he doesn't make an effort to meet me in the morning before he leaves, I will just not answer his calls.I am tired of waiting ......Please help...I don't know where I stand, or better still I do know that I will never be that important for him to put me in the first place.