My intentions at this point are to "Fix" me, and the things that I broke in this relationship. I feel she is a good woman, in fact a great woman, and an outstanding mother. She was not always like this. We've been dating for 3 years now and it is a very long and complicated story so I will just stick this one problem for now. My intentions are...when I can look myself in the mirror and know I've done everything I possibly can, and she is still unwilling to recognize, communicate, or support...then I'm gone! I do feel I have caused more damage in this relationship that she has, therefore I want to fix things. But it is just the snide remarks that seem to tear down anything that is starting to be repaired. Such as "I assume you work today, but don't know because you never tell me your schedule" me replying. "I'm sorry honey, I will try to do better and telling you my schedule, I'm just not use to doing that" Her reply "Doesn't matter, none of my business anyway" So I replied "Well if it is none of your business then why bring it up? If it doesn't matter, then why bring it up? When I say I will try to include you more often, send you schedules, etc. how about showing that you are trying just a little by saying OK honey? Is that so hard? I feel she has done whatever it takes to make this work, and now has given up. So now it is my turn. But I am not going to go on forever like this. I don't expect her to see changes overnight, even if they really exist. But if she doesn't start to see that I am trying eventually, and start warming up eventually, then I really have no choice. I would really like to go deep deep into detail with you. It is a shame we just can't talk on the phone. There is so so very much on my mind. I am reading the "Love Dare" and trying to implement it to the very best of my ability.