Thank you for your reply. I wanted to be more specific about what happened for you to get a better Idea. Me and my boy friend met on a dating website for Arabs. we then started calling and then we met. We spent a lot of time together, he used to drive 40 miles after work to come and see me. he was very nice and did everything I asked him. He was very generious and he is the one who started the committment. I wanted to make the engagement after 4 months , but he is the one who insisted of making it faster becasue he said there is no reason to delay. we talked the day before and we went for a coffee and then we continued planning. We planned for EVERYTHING regarding our engagement and marriage. then the next day, he stopped answering my calls and I noticed some change. When I asked him why he said he had so much pressure and when I asked him if he want us to continue together, his answer was I don't know. I started crying and I lost it with him. I told him that he treated me so bad and I don't deserve this from him. he called me several times and send me several text to ask me if I was ok? I answered him and I said that you hurt me so bad. He did not replay to my text. The same day we broke up, I saw him online on the same dating website we met at. we broke up a week ago and since then I saw him online everyday on this website. I hope I gave you more information to play with. Looking forward to hear back from you.
Thank you Karin,
My last question for you. Since you said he might got a cold feet about the whole committment thing. Do you think there will be a chance that he might contact me again? like I mentioned we broke up a week ago and he did not try to contact me in anyway.