I am like my psychiatrist. I know this is not transference. I have been thinking about him constnaly for two months since we met.I know him from university we spoke once eight years ago. I want a plan of some kind that will help me gain his affections. However im overweight size 14 and im afraid he has seen the real me already. I simply adore him and have strong feeling for him as we are both form academia in the same field. Please help.
I will need more help on this Karin and wil forward more information.. thanks
Karin its just that I am thinking about him continuously all day everyday. what are my options to get him. a . leave his practice because I love him and never see him again.
b. continue and continue to fancy him more and more
c. lose weight, become a doctor, become stronger and more confident say nothing and let him make the moves
my thing is that he was interested in the first and second session until I told him about how I felt on the phone that he easily omitted by saying he could not speak freely.
I have a boyfriend and he asked about him because he had to know because he liked me.
the more I think about the less he will like me...please help..
maybe suggest a plot to gain his affections..thanks