I meet this guy online about 3 or 4 weeks ago. We exactly meet in person last week, but he is not the most attractive man I ever met. Anyways, we have never been on a date yet and contacts me by text daily but not much phone calls. Today he asked me to call at 3:30 pm if I could. I said ok then call by that time. Anyways he brought a discussion about him talking his semi-annual aids test and told he does not have it but like to keep healthy. Which I told him ok, and I don't have it also. He made a comment because I don't trust people especially mexican's and gadaumuale (sorry don't know how to spell it), and If get anything from them I will kill them, he made the comment twice. In my head, I am like okay why do you have sex with them if you don't trust them. My question is this we are suppose to go on a date in 2 weeks, and I have cold sores, but have not told him. From that comment alone he made, I am thinking about telling him we are not a match and just ended things with us. I don't feel I have to tell him I have cold sores if this is his reaction with std's and people from other races. He started to curse regarding their race and said from now on he will only date black woman. I look at the phone, and start thinkin anyone can get stds. but never said anything. What should I do, follow my first mind?
So how should I approach the this situation? in telling him that I believe things will not work out because he may want and explantion as of why.