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hi, ohh she lives with her ex and kids.
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my question ~ if you have a significant other (my fiancé) and you don't live with them and they have kids...it is normal to not be a part of (at least a tiny bit) birthday celebrations? I understand she wants to spend the day/time with her kids and especially the birthday boy...but...am I being unreasonable feeling left out?
thank you for getting back to me. there were no other people with them today...just my lady and her 2 kids. I would have been happy had she suggested we meet at the mall or a park etc. she wouldn't invite me there because the ex is still there. peggy (my fiancé) had my little dog for a while because I had an incident with my house in feb due to the snow we had and her ex was afraid of him so to get my dog to go back upstairs, he put a rope around his neck and lifted him off of the floor. this, in turn, prompted me to call the law and ever since that day (last month) the son has been a little funny towards me. I always feel peggy is sheltering her kids and wanting them all to herself. I am very p.o'ed about this situation and I am not sure if we would ever make it as a unit....especially because of the kids.