I believe that a good friend would understand.
I believe that a good friend would understand. The thing that bothers me is that in my past relationships, men have accused me of being selfish and I hope that I am not. She would be the one to mostly text first. I would like to change and for it to become more of a two way street. She can be bossy like telling me how I should dress and what type of men I should be attracted to. That is the reason why I sometimes don't want to hang around her--especially when I am already stressed out.
So true. I will examine if I was selfish. I know that my son's father and I broke up because he constantly wanted me to pay his rent. He would always say, "But that is what people in relationships do for each other. They help each other out. But his rent was over $700 a month and with a baby on the way. I just couldn't afford it. I have a lot of problems with interpersonal relationships and not knowing who I should be nice to and who I shouldn't be nice to.
Very true. Well, I am definitely going to scrutinize my relationships more carefully and respect my boundaries. I will also continue to examine any area where I may be selfish and just continue to behave as if my relationship with my best friend will continue as usual. Thank you so much for your answer!