Deardebra : I will bring it up for you.
Deardebra : Deardebra says:4:58 PMThe one thing I am worried about is if he knows how you feel.4:58 PMSome times people think they can not come back because the person would never forgive them.4:58 PMI want him to know that you are still there and that you would take him back.4:59 PMTell him to please answer you if there is nothing left to the relationship so that you can move on.4:59 PMYou need closure and to move on if he is going to try to work things out.5:01 PMHe needs to tell you straight out how he feels and that this relationship is over because if he doesn't then you will keep wondering. He should tell you because he does care about you.
Deardebra : I posted the times they were wrote so you know how far you have seen.
Customer: I sent him a text this morning..it said
Customer: me- Hey Tim. How are you?
Customer: tim- I'm doing...Just laying in bed with baby watching tv...How have you been? Anything new?
Customer: me- I'm taking life day by day..few changes I'm dealing with. Everything going well with you?
Customer: tim- yea I guess..Same as when you last saw me..nothing new really..just work and kids..
Customer: tim- but you're good?
Customer: me-...and a new relationship..lol
Customer: tim- who you?
Customer: me- no dummy you
Customer: me- I'm not "good"..I'm just dealing
Customer: tim- I'm sorry..I do think about you. Fondly
Customer: me- So everything is going well with you and Anna then?
Customer: tim- Nothing changed. We hang out. but it is the same as it was just taking it a day at a time...
Customer: me- so you still think you made the right choice, right?
Customer: tim- not sure yet
Customer: me-(being stupid) I need to stop loving you..so it's okay to admit that you're happy and you're fine. It would give me some peace of mind and some closure..
Customer: tim- I'm happy..
Customer: me- ok good. so I guess I should pick up the grill at this point..when is the best time to do that?
Customer: tim- whenever
Customer: me-ok- not going to be able to fit in my car all together..can you take legs off for me please?
Customer: tim- ok
Customer: me- can you have that done by this afternoon or is wed after work better?
Customer: tim- I'm not home so wed is better.
Customer: me- ok I will do it wed..thanks
Customer: end of conversation
Customer: Is it pretty safe to say I now need to try to let go of him and move on? He is clearly already over me..don't you think?
Deardebra : Looking at that conversation it was very friendly and he was giving you the impression that he was not happy and wasn't sure how things were going.
Deardebra : Then when you said you pretty much had to move on then he said he was happy, so I feel he is very confused about how he feels about this relationship.
Deardebra : It doesn't sound like he is excited to be back with her, it even sounds like they are only hanging out and nothing it happening.
Deardebra : I think he is under the impression that you are done now.
Customer: So what should I say when I go pick up the grill on wed? I don't want to beg him or act needy. Should I tell him if he decides things aren't going to work out with them to give me a call if he wants and we will talk? I don't want him to think I will be hanging on forever waiting either. Thanks.