This is what I want you to do. I want you to tell her that her children invited you to soccer practice and you do not want to disappoint them in anyway so tell her you are going to go.
Tell her that you wanted to tell her that you will be there so she knows when she goes to pick them up that you will be there.
I really feel like she is looking for a lot in this relationship. She wants to see you do more and I feel that her children like you a lot that this will help her make a positive decision.
I feel that she is testing you all the time
Seeing what you are going to do to keep this relationship going.
I feel she is waiting for you to just give up so she is trying to see if she can trust that you are going to be there for her through everything, the ups and the downs in life.
No, tell her you are going because you do not want to disappoint them.
She is looking
for you to take charge.
Everything she says is about you doing more and being there, she wants to be a family.
She keeps pushing you to do more and then she seems to back away.
You need to show her that you are going to be there for her no matter what.
This is great
Now you know exactly what she wants, she wants you to be there and be a family together.
She wants to feel like she is number one in your life.
She knows you are a nice person because even though she does not agree and you did lie about it, you are helping your ex.
That shows your personality that you are kind and thoughtful.
But she wants to be first in your life. She doesn't want your ex to be your first choice, she wants to be noticed.
She wants you to do things for her and be a part of her family as well.
Just you telling you you were going to the kids practice was exactly how you can show her you are there and she and her children are number one in your life
Why don't you talk about the future together.
That will help her see you want to be with her and do want to live together and maybe get married.
If she hints about marriage then she must want to marry you and is looking to be asked.
I would plan that trip to new york that would be perfect and very romantic for you both to reconnect.