During prosy he grabbed your hand and this has happened more than once.
When someone does that I feel their is a very strong connection.
That is showing a bond.
There are still feeling there.
But I feel like he is not confused by how he feels he is afraid to put his heart out there.
1. During pray he grabbed your hand and this has happened more than once.
You spoke at his church which when someone you love gives a speech and your able to look at them at their moment to shine, you can take the time to watch them at their brightest moment. I feel that when you came off that stage his feelings were so strong for you.
When his daughters asked you to sit with them.
That is a very clear sign that they know he has feelings for you.
They were trying to make you feel comfortable and accepted.
Believe me his daughters know how he feels about you. I feel he just has concerns about being in a relationship.
He doesn't want to get hurt and he is worried that you might leave and he will be hurt again.
Right now his emotions are strong for you, but he is so afraid of taking a risk in the relationship he would rather pull away and not make a decision.
I feel you need to take the lead on this one, if you want to get back together I feel things need to be discussed first so he knows what you want and what you are looking for in a relationship. You wanted more time and you should get that time with him to create that every lasting bond together.
Explain your feelings for him and how nice it was that he held your hand in church.
Tell him you felt so welcomed when his daughters asked you to sit with them. I think you both have a strong connection that you both need to tell each other how you both feel about one another. I feel if you start off first he will tell you how he feels, the more he opens up the more he will begin to understand his feelings and that he can not live with out you.