Thank you so much for answering and yes I am sorry for not giving more specific information, I didn't know how much info to give starting off !
In the beginning, I found out he lied to me about very stupid things, for example, he claimed he was going to school everyday, but reality was that he owed class fees and wasn't even able to register. He confessed the truth after he came to visit me for the first time ( we are long distance relationship)
Also, in the beginning, I would yell at him for small things like not answering my calls, not being able to call me often, putting me aside to do something for his family ( he still lives at home)
He apologized for the lying and said he would be honest to me and has been so far. He also has told me that he felt ashamed and a little scared of my reactions and of losing me if he told me the truth about not being in school.
After the lying, I have been very untrusting. I was suspicious of a girl he would hang around with and I caused many fights over this. He would get very upset, saying that I still don't trust him even though he's been honest and that he's trying to please me but I never see happy with what he does. I asked him to spend less time around her and he has finally agreed to it.
I have past issues with my ex boyfriends about lying, cheating, and anger. I know I bring that baggage with me, but I don't know what to do. I get suspicious, scared, worried that he's lying, even though I haven't found any solid proof yet, and I have gone looking through his facebook, e-mail, etc. It's made me feel crazy.