It's awful what you're going through. It's clear that you need to talk to people who can understand the situation and understand your side of the story. Do you have any friends or family you can trust?
If you don't, then I advise you to see whatever free or low cost legal advice you can get, and also talk to a counselor. You need to have someone you can trust who will listen to your story and help you make sense of it. If your husband has isolated you and told everyone you are mentally unstable, then you can go to an abused women's center and talk to a counselor there.
thank you for your advice I will follow it and no my family lives far away in another state im pretty much alone my husband use to be my best friend we where friends before we got married our relationship grew as he was my daughters attorney she was in a very bad accident and he was her attorney he was married I was married I protected him threw all of those bad times he was afraid he was going to be disbarred my ex husband was so upset about every thing and now all of this is happening could you help me find some legal advice in my area I have tryed and i think other attorneys dont like to help in this kind of a mess maybe someone out side of the area please advise about that and thank you very much for your advice it makes me feel better that someone understands or wants to help i cant tell you how much it has helped me in just reading your response please keep n touch thank you debra