Thank you. I really was stunned. We dated for 2 years 10 years ago, then reunited in 2011; We are both divorced and have been involved in each other's families for 10 years.
We recently vacationed together and it was great.
He's 59, I'm 57; when we dated in early 2000, we had a normal active sex life.
Since we reunited in 2011, he has never made the moves, si I initiated sex on our vacation. His performance wasn't great and he really wasn't affectionate afterwards, but I just chalked it up to his age.
Our last date was 4/4/13 and we were laughing and had a great time.
His email also said, we're good at being friends, but obviously not at the boyfriend/girlfriend thing. He works 12 hr shift and every other weekend. He alternates days and night shifts. I don't know when he would have had time to develop a relationship.
despite my phone call and email asking for a face to face meeting, he has not answered. I am so hurt. Never did I think he would do this to me.