Kathy: Going to a counselor is not going to happen. I think that where we are right now in the relationship has no place at a professional's space because i do not know what it is right now. A relationship or a friendship. Can you give me some advice as to how i can have a focused conversation on this concern with him today? I need to get this stress off of my shoulders and know where i stand in his life once and for all. Do you think that what i have expected in this relationship or friendship is what has put me in this position to begin with? Should i have not moved in with him? Could he have been doing this sort of thing all along and i not notice it until i actually was living with him? He says he loves me, but has shown it. His actions seem totally different than his words to me. What do you think?
In regards XXXXX XXXXX divorce, i received a text two days before i was to move in with him that he sent to his wife telling her to sign the papers and send them back to him. I asked him why i received the text and he stated that he wanted me to know. I was very hurt, but continued with my plans to move in with him since i had resigned from my job and had all my plans in place. You know, i have never used this service until this relationship. I am a very private person and do not like sharing my private life with strangers, but felt as though maybe if i just ask a question maybe i can get a little help with my problem. I have now used this service more than five times and they have all been for this relationship. Do you think that because this is so, that this relationship is not meant to be? Maybe i am looking for the answers that i already know? Just want to see it or hear it from another source that is unbiased so that i can feel more right than wrong when i do make my choice?