I met this guy online about 2 weeks ago. We seems to be attracted to one another. He has came to job for a brief meet and greet early this week, and we even have a date set up Saturday morning. My question is he has kids from a divorce every weekend and that is not problem. He texted a lot and calls maybe 2 times a day. We even discussed a relationship in the future and he made it clear that mostly all his relationship started after sex. I have cold sores and have yet to tell him plus I don't want a relationship based on sex, and yes I had relationship that has started after that first sex act too. How do I handle this situation in a mature way. I told I was on my period so he would not expect anything more at least not for now. I wan to make sure he is worth telling about my situation and get to know him better first. I am expected about out date I got my baby grandmother to watch her I have not been on a date in months, and yes I want a relationship. Does he just sex or is he really looking for a relationship as well?
Should I keep the date short then? I think he wants to make out after the movie. I told him I was on my period and he said your period must last all week. I even asked him for ideas about afterwards but he said he is not sure because it will be windy on Saturday, but he would get back to me if he think of something after the movies. I am confused because I did mention another movie theatre by 10 am and he told me to let chose the one by me for 10:30 am instead and he mention he had to home by 2 or 3 for the kids. At first he said the earlier the movie the better, so I want to know he truly wants a relationship or just sex for now. He say;s that when he does have sex he wants a relationship because he wants to continue being with that same person.
I am sorry I am confused about that last statement..Please explain? Does that mean if we do have sex don't tell about the cold sores but we will still be in a relationship because he only is I gets in relationship after sex starts..I am confused. I might add I had been medicine for herpes for 3 o4 years and luckily no outbreaks if this helps me conversation with him.