Hi, I understand where you are coming from. I think the true problem here is not your age, but rather for anyone for that matter. When we dress a certain way it calls attention to people we may not want attention from. Of course if you are single there is no problem rather than if you were married. It is just really a matter of how you want people to see you. When certain clothes are worn people may get the wrong impression about you and not take you as serious than if you dressed differently. It is really hard to say without seeing exactly what you are wearing. You can dress conservative and still look sexy and do not need to settle for "frumpy clothes". Sometimes people who wear certain clothes that are classy end up looking better than the ones who wear revealing clothes. The revealing clothes everyone is used to. Now days so many people young and old use them. If you are not liking attention from men then I would try changing it up. Maybe if you try you can see what type of attention you get to see what you enjoy and prefer. It really is a personally preference that is based on what you are trying achieve as well as how you want people to view you. Please let me know if you need any further clarification or have any questions.