I dont know if I agree with that. See he not only cheated on me with her, yet with other woman as well. He started seeing me just two weeks prior to his son being born. He lies to me all the time, picks fights and whats most iritating is that the ex wife was at a wedding that we attended and at first he didnt want me to go and then when he found out that she was going afterall he rushed to bring me. Not only was I there but he stared at her all night.
I was the other woman that he was lying to her about and cheating with and when she found out she moved to another state to start over. I dont think he thought that she would pick up and move on.
I even heard him talking to a friend of his about how he was going to hook up with another girl behind my back. Yet again I couldnt believe him.
Her uncle and his best friend even told me that he had no intentions of being serious with me, yet that his plan of keeping her stupid backfired and that I was the next best thing, a warm blanket until he could figure out how to get her back. Well hes met with rejection with her, which he is not used to.
I also caught him lying again about his interaction with his ex wifes family. He lies about cutting them off entirely , yet I found out that he went on vacation with her unlces. These are unlces that he just met two years ago, so he had no real connection. I then come to find out that when he talks to them he ask about her yet will lie about it to me. I feel as if its him trying to keep his foot in the door.
Also he can talk to all of his exes but her he snubs. See there are times that he tried to communicate with her and since he cheated on her, well she treats everything as a lie. Shes nice to him but I feel that he knows he shot himself in the foot with her.
This has been going on for two years now and well while he says he is over her, his behavior shows otherwise.
I feel as though that he can talk to everyone else but her, like if he could figure her out hed take her back.
He also slipped up during a recent conversation with his friend that he didnt want to take me on a couples on conversation, if he loved me then why not take me?
I feel that he feels rejected by her and that is why he treats her that way and that he never anticipated getting caught which is why he is they way that he is with her.
What do you think?