I also want you to tell her that you will keep trying and that you will do what ever it takes to get this relationship back on track.
She needs to also know how you feel and how much you love and care about her.
Thank you very much for your insights. I will continue to try and attempt to draw up a list of positives and improvements for both of us and we can then tick off what we are improving on. As I am committed to this marriage.
You both will get to a point where you both will see that you both are trying. She is going to se the changes and know how you feel about her.
she knows that you are trying but I feel she is worried that you will stop trying so the more she sees the more she will begin to stop those protective walls and you both can start again in a new way together.
You both love each other and that is why you are both working things out. She is trying and you are trying, you both just need time.
I agree and will keep persisting.