Dr. Abbott, "Yesterday" that was good, and to the point ! You gave good support for the advice. Your advice was not unlike the advice I got from my therapist and so it did not surprise me. The fact that I was married for 40 years demonstrates the degree to which I am willing to work on a relationship before giving up but I am running out of gas ! I want more than anything to enjoy a healthy relationship just once in my life and I am running out of time. Thanks.