He is willing to end our relationship over this. His drinking does not affect his job, does not do anything illigal, I dont stay around to see how his behavrior changes. Counseling is out. What can I do when he drinks? Leave? Not be there in the first place? Shut up and stew? I dont know how to handle myself when he drinks to much (he works in a "dry" camp for up to 3 weeks at a time, he is not addicted, it is just social drinking, but I hate it!! I dont care about other people, just my husband) Actually, maybe I need counselling?