Thank you so much for your encouraging words!
I don't believe it's SAAD, I live in Denver, CO, we have over 300 days of sunshine a year :) I have a hard time believing that I'm clinically depressed and I would never take psychotropic drugs, no matter what the circumstances.
I do, however, think you are correct about communication, but my husband is a very sensitive, yet fiery man. He takes things very personally, if I bring something up, he usually takes it as an attack. Maybe you have some advice on how to talk to him without causing the inevitable explosion?