I have mentioned that just a gold wedding ring is all I need but he says that isn't good enough for him & he wants to do this properly because I deserve it. He was willing to take out $3,000 of his mortgage to help pay for my taxes but did not mention doing this to get me a ring. I don't want to push the issue, but I have my doubts to how serious he is about marrying me. I have told him where I stood on this & how important it is to me to progress in this manner & his response is he thought I knew where he stood & that he is planning on marrying me....I sitll don't know the real reason as to why he didn't marry his last girlfriend as that is what she wanted as well & they were together for almost 7 years.
Hello! I have another issue I hope you can help me with. My boyfriend has within the past week distanced himself from me. I have noticed some changes in his behavior towards me. We got into a discussion about some issues he is having & I got frustrated with not being able to communicate with him so I didn't speak to him for a few hours. He eventually asked me what was wrong & I told him I could ask him what is wrong. He tells me that he has issues of things he needs to work out (I know alot of it is tax issues) & he has felt the distance between us & that it's not me, it's him. He said his feelings for me has not changed nor his plans for us. We have lived together for almost a year now & things have been great up until now. Is he trying to gently break it off with me or do you believe that men distant themselves to deal with issues of their own to solve them? I really need some advice as I would like to know what to do. Thank you!