Hi, thanks for the reply. We've not seen a counsellor and don't think it'd be something she would want to do. She won't even go and see the nurse who gives her the pill, and seemed pretty certain that the fact we haven't had sex in 6 months and the pill are anything to do with her feelings however i believe this could be the problem. If i ever try and talk to her about problems she'll usually reply with 'nothning' or it's ok' or 'its fine, doesnt matter' etc. and change the subject making it difficult for me to ever get anything out of her. For her just to change suddenly like this is just odd as a couple of months ago she was saying how much she loved me and how happy i make her.. surely she cant just 'go off' me in a few weeks. Now it just seems like there's a bit of tension, she seems moodey sometimes, or a bit bored but i feel like if i try and ask her about it she'll either just say everything's fine or she'll decide to end it again. Also, when she initially broke up with me she was saying things like 'you're too nice' 'you can go out and have fun now you're single' 'i don't think we can carry on, there's just something missing' 'im here as a friend' etc. (which is exactly what my last girlfriend said a couple of years ago.. seems like deja vu!) Do you think there'd be anything i could do to maybe keep her interested or re ignite that spark?
Forgot to mention I'm 22 and she's 21.