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Thank you for getting back to me.
I agree with you that your are continuing to make the same mistakes over and over again.
You are vulnerable and you evidently attract manipulative men who prey on you because they can convince you of their sincerity and control you by making you think they are different than they are.
They are probably men with a lot of self-confidence who are apparently successful and well liked, and often are either high achievers, or who strive to be.
I think you always go for the same type and have a need to be with a strong man.
However, you are a bit dependent and therefore seek these type of narcissistic men.
You can better tell about them by finding out how they feel about children, about people less fortunate then them, and see if they actually care or just say what others want to hear.
I know that you have read a lot of books about this, but I have one for you that will change your life for the better, or at least that is my hope.
I have one other book for you to read:
Try not to fall into relationships so quickly. You need to know that a man values and respects you and is capable of real feelings rather than just telling you what you want to hear.
I wish you great blessings.