thank you for your advice. I kind of knew that I probably should have been a bit bolder. There are a few things you mentioned that were not that clear to me. when you say dont go too far what do you mean? and do yo think calling him would look too pushy? He did initially ask me to give him a call though and I was shy so he did. Also you said to find a neutral way to communication. What do you mean by that? Also what do you mean when you said "really seek him out".