Well i havent really thought about anythign in particular because he is always saying he is going to move out (with my help of course) but he ends up blowing his money on complete junk everytime. He says that i cant get in the way of his addiction and that it will always win over me which makes me feel pretty crap and just thingk to myself "well why am i even here then"... I approached him tonight saying that i didnt know if i could do this anymore and his reaction was filled with anger and resent and he just spoke down to me as if what i was saying was stupid and he gets to say when its over. HE then got really mad and left somewhere then came back 2/3 hours later and said that he didnt know how this was going to work or how we were going to 'fix' it. Then he stormed off into his little room and was really mad at me again for no reason and i asked him why he was mad now and he just told me to f off and leave him alone.. so i did.. idk what to do. im so over the drama that comes along with him and the repetative talks we have about the same thing everyday almost.
Here is a resource that may help you: Why Does He Do That?: Inside the Minds of Angry and Controlling Men by Lundy Bancroft
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