My question is my ex-boyfriend of almost 5 years came over December 30, 2012 and prior s I told him I am not looking for a friends with benefits arrangement and he agreed and say he has been with anyone in 8 months, so we end up having sex after he told me he still love me. During sex, he asked if my female body part was his, and I said yes. My question does this mean we are in a relationship and if not how do I approach him about it because for me sex equals relationship.
well he said he had not been with anyone in 8 months. I told him that has the same amount if time I have been single and non -active as well. i wanted to know when i do see him again..should i ask him what is looking for in regards XXXXX XXXXX? and just take it from there. I already asked why did he choose to come over and spend time with me and says he still love me.
Thanks..I will ask him the next time I see him. The last time we tried to make this work I nagged him alot and accused him of seeing someone else when we were not in a relationship. I will let you know what happens with that.