Deardebra : I would not give up on him and I will tell you why.
Deardebra : This person sounds very interested in you, but I think he might be confused about how you feel about him.
Deardebra : He needs to know how you feel and that you want to get to know him.
Okay then what am I supposed to do? How do I even get him to hang out with me? He never invites me to do anything and blows me off when I invite him out
Deardebra : He has confided in you about certain this so this show that he trust you. I feel he has opened up to you and it sounds like a start of a relationship.
Deardebra : But you need to tell him how you feel.
Deardebra : He could be waiting for you to tell him how you feel.
He says stuff all the time that makes it seem like he at least considers us good friends but I guess what I'm really asking is how do I get him to want to do something with me? He leaves on the 13th to go back to school so I have a limited time frame as far as in person interaction goes. I just want him to give it a chance to see if there really is anything there and he won't even do that
I have told him. More than once.
Deardebra : He has said some nice things too you. That is a huge sign that he is interested.
I know that he's interested at least somewhat. That's not what I'm getting at. Why doesn't he ever want to go anywhere with me? And if I shouldn't give up on him, what do I do?
It keeps showing you entering and leaving the chat but I don't see any responses from you...
Deardebra : So
Deardebra : Some times people get nervous to be around people they have feelings for.
Deardebra : I would begin with texting him.
Deardebra : This will help you both get to know each other if he is somewhat shy.
Deardebra : Once two people talk and get to know each other, people tend to get more comfortable. Then you might see him ask you to go places. I am sure he is scared to get his heart broken. He wants to be sure you care for him before he puts his heart out there.
I already told you we text and have been texting a ton. This is not really helping me but thanls anyways.