Thanks. I really think he is not 'in love' with me though,. Just loves me, and therefore cutting him out I would lose him, which is probably why I have not done this. BUT you are right, as I am not happy as it stands in the relationship and staying in it isnt helping. I guess I am scared of losing the OPTION of having him as a best friend, but this is all just speculation and I guess everyone has to cut their losses in life.
Thank you for your help