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I had a huge fight with my boyfriend. He encourages me to go

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I had a huge fight with my boyfriend. He encourages me to go back to school but putting a lot of pressure on me. I didn't know what I wanted to do after leaving school. Just like my family he says just do anything. I'm pretty stressed. And loathe this answer.
Submitted: 1 year ago.
Category: Relationship
Expert:  Jen Helant replied 1 year ago.
Hi,

Your boyfriend and family only want the best for you and may be worried about your future. However, sometimes things may not come out the right way.

Do you agree with what they are saying?
Do you have plans that they do not agree with?
Are you needing help with how to reconcile with your boyfriend?

I will await your reply, so I can help further.
Customer: replied 1 year ago.
I do agree but don't deal well with being yelled at. I do want to improve but it's hard to know what to do
Customer: replied 1 year ago.
I Aso tried applying and got screwed over. Everything went wrong. I registered with VTAC then kept saying my ID and pin were wrong and I missed out. This is so unfair
Expert:  Jen Helant replied 1 year ago.
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Customer: replied 1 year ago.
I was angry and annoyed. I tried to apply for university but due to technical difficulties couldn't. The place you apply through is closed and I have to wait until next week. Everything went wrong- eg didn't know my laptop wasn't working (my brother uses it). I am too depressed right now. I would have to wait for mid year intake/ next year. I didn't want to be 25 and still not knowing what to do career wise.
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Customer: replied 1 year ago.
I am depressed as I've been living with my parents. Really not easy. My dad complains about the mess yet he is a hoarder himself.
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Customer: replied 1 year ago.
It is hard not to be depressed when everyone is getting married/ having kids
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Customer: replied 1 year ago.
I have too much resentment as they still treat me as if I'm 13
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