So i should be carefull with sending any more money, since i did send some money to her before, even although i met her in Jamaica and we had a great time for one week even told her i will be back, thats when she reminded me she is seperated and not divorced yet and she would need suport to finalize the divorce so she could be all mine .
It's still a bad idea. She is playing on your feelings in order to get you to give her the money. She should not need you to get a divorce. She needs to handle her own personal relationship then be there for you, not the other way around.
Hello , i did not send the money but still talk to the lady , i am scheduled to go to Jamaica again in ten days i want to make things clear wit her.
in the mentime old (local) flame called me several times , she wants to see me , so now i do not know what to do, its too late to call of the trip at the same time i am not so sure of my feelings , what should i do?