My spouse has recently gave me an ultimatum to take my spouse back to court for support modification because she feels I am paying too much and she has discussed with attorney. I agree I am probably paying 200-400 a month too much but at the same time my kids are not happy and if I pursue a support modification I feel I will alienate by kids from me and it up in a custody battle with my ex-spouse because my kids are not happy in my home due to their step-mother.
I am tired of being controlled and given ultimatums. When I try to discuss things with her, she has compromised and done everyting right. All the issues are with me.
We cannot communicate. I know what she is going to say and how she will react before she does.