I just felt that something so minor as a nip on the ear shouldnt bring such hostility out in someone and that bothered me. I am the product of an abusive parent and struggle with the lack of emphathy, compassion for others. I work in a oncologist clinic and see only people struggling everyday just to stay alive. Maybe I am just a bit sensitive to someone so quick to feel anger at another when it was just a mistake. Im sure that person felt horrible enough just making that mistake.
I was just very disappointed in his reaction to what seemed to me to be a human error.
And I suppose I see him acting in an apathetic manner more lately and its really getting to me.
Its seems like apathy, emphathy is part of your value system and not something that anyone can change about someone. When I point out to him things like the above that bothers me, he just looks at me like Im being a B...or crazy for how I feel. Doesnt ever want talk it through so I feel better. I walk away so frustrated and with a terrible feeling.
Deb is considered to be part of an individuals value system and if so---can two people make it together that seem so different in that area
I just reread what I wrote and didnt do so well on that first sentence. sorry.