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It sounds like the separation may feel like it could be too hard for her and she chose to end things rather than work through a tough space.
I still think she loves you but is protecting herself
felling sad when you are not together in the same location
I dont think she was waiting until the last minute. I think she thought she could do it but then as it got closer she may have panicked
her feelings may be so strong that she is just afraid of feeling too sad and trying to block that ongoing pain by ending it now.
not easy for you as you are in pain now
I would wait and see. Let her get used to it all. My hunch is that once she gets settled she will feel better and she will miss what you share and reach out. Let her know you care and how you want to be with her but will do what you need to help her feel okay.
I am so sorry you are going through that pain.
my gut says it isnt over forever.
Give her the support she needs and the time she needs.
no I dont get that sense at all.
i think it is more that she is fearful about missing you and not knowing what to do with those feelings.
you are a gentleman and take care of yourself during this time too.
give her some time if you can and let it play out
she sounds confused. Give the space and see if she comes around, but at the same time live your life and dont put things on hold.
sometimes the painful feelings can be too much.
I would not stop your life and just let things play out and see where things go.
there is no way to predict so i would want for you to go about your daily life and enjoy yourself and see what happens.
If you still desire to do so then i would go and have fun, be light and enjoy the time.
yes on both...
not easy for you but you deserve to move on and be happy.
It is very confusing and i think it is evident that she feels confused which is why her mind keeps changing. Pull back a bit and let her miss you and your times together.
to me it sounds like she is confused and scared and needs some time on her own. In that time my feeling is that she will miss you.
It is my pleasure. Take care of yourself now. I wouldnt reach out either. Let her miss you. I think she will.
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