Deardebra : It sounds like he feels he can't give you what you want. That's how he feels, but that's not how you feel. You just want to be with him, marriage can wait until he can get married but right now he is missing out on having a relationship and living you.
Deardebra : He needs to understand that you deserve another chance to show him you have changed.
Deardebra : You know what it is like to not be with him and you miss him in your life. Now it is you turn to show him that your focus is loving him and not getting into arguments.
Deardebra : He has to see why you might argue and this is because you have so many feelings for him. You love him and you are someone that just reacts.
Deardebra : That is your personality.
Deardebra : But he looks at it as you can't be in a relationship with him because you just react. You are only reacting on how you feel and that is ok. It doesn't mean you both shouldn't be in a relationship together.
Deardebra : I think he feels maybe there is another way for you both to solve problems. You both need to sit down and talk about how you feel so that it doesn't get to the put where you are arguing.
Deardebra : He needs to be reassured that this relationship can be better. He is afraid that he will give you all his love and you might leave because you are looking for more. I feel he thinks you will want to get married and won't wait, but he needs to know all you want to do us love him.