I did speak to him about how I felt but he said had made up his mind about us - that we tried but it didn't work because I had been non-committal. He was also confused about why, when i had not been into him, I was suddenly so into him just because he was walking away - I guess I may be answering my own question here...The one confusing thing is that he has been sending me sweet messages, wanting to meet up and has told me that he still has feelings for me but that a relationship would not work. I have now cut contact with him because I do not want to be in limbo. He has joined a dating site but yet still was contacting me every day - I guess he just wanted to keep me around for his own selfish reasons. I really just want to stop thinking about him and come to the conclusion that he wasn;t right for me - I wish my brain would cooperate and stop playing tricks on me!!