we always used to talk about everything until he started playing farmville on facebook until 3am
We have been married for 20 years and have a 15 year old son. I have been going through menopause for the last couple of years and havent always wanted to have sex.
i still love him very much and want our marriage to work out. I feel so totally out of control as all the cards seem to be in his hands. Does this usually mean that he is having or wants to have an affair or is he just going through a phase where he wants to please himself and sod everyone else. Selfish stage! Which is totally out of character?