Hi, That sure would have freaked me out as well. I understand why you felt this way. I probably would have done the same thing. Believe it or not people sometimes do these great lengths to close a chapter in their life. He probably wrote you a letter with closure and feels necessary that you read it. This is a very common thing and do not see anything wrong with it. However, if he was really imposing as the guy on the dating site that would be very concerning. Could there be a way that it was a coincedence and maybe he was not the guy on the dating site? You may want to look into that further if you really did like the guy on the site. Also, to know if he really went out of his way to do that. That is serious. If indeed it was him I would be cautious of his further actions even if with someone else. If he stalks or harrasses you then you can get the police involved. I would say to look into that aspect further
That makes sense, it was definitely him as when i looked back at the dating profile he had changed everything to all my likes and interests and even put something on there that made it obvious it was him... he knows i have know interest in this parcel, it feels as though he is just using it as an excuse to get hold of me, I have no idea why he felt the need to text my mother mother the message he did though
Yes, that is very scary and horrible that he did that to you. Very upsetting. It is very concerning because he seems to not be in a good state of mind. If he is willing to go that far for that much time. I do not know if the police can do anything about that thus far, but I would bring it to there attention just in case. This seems serious and I would be worried about what he can do next especially since he knew your new number right away. Who knows if it is true that he has a new girlfriend or even what this parcel is. I would be very cautious and skeptical.