Hi, I would like to help. Do you have an idea of why she treats your parents like this? Also, how long has this behavior been going on?
Soon after she came to UK she was unhappy of my parents involvement in my life.I think She wanted an independent way of living away from my parents , anything that my mother says to her she took it negatively. I have told her before marriage that my family is very important to me and my family has a lot of say in my life, she has accepted this before marriage but after coming here, she found it irritating to keep a constant touch with family. Since my parents are alone in India and have medical problems it is my responsibility , but she was not supportive in that , which caused stressed to me since i had to manage my personal life and family . I was okay with this and managing, but the arrogance and arguments have become too much and now almost unbearable. Specially when her parents are defaming me in India. and She is threatening me of police case , I have emails from her cousine which is abusive and threatening of "some Action" against me even if they had to go out of their way to do this.
I am so sorry you are going through this. I understand how sometimes it can irritate a partner when the family has too much involvement because usually a couple will make their own decisions without extended family involvement. However, in your case it is different because you were honest with her and she was accepting of this. In that case she should be more accepting and supportive of you. I don't understand how she could be threatening "action" against you. If you have done nothing wrong then the police and courts will see the truth out of he entire situation, so I would not allow her to munipulate you with this. Are you wanting to stay or leave? What is your goal with this relationship and what is she wanting at this point?
Are you still there?
sorry , yes i am here
That is okay. What are your thoughts about what wrote.
I do not see this relation going anywhere, she has left house yesterdya to her cousine's place ...but now she is asking me either for a ticket to India or come and live in the house
I cannot live in the same house becuase things might go worst , also she is on my dependent visa so it is my responsibility to provide her shelter in any case
should I provide her ticket to India ?
This case it may be best to just give her the ticket back. If you see no way to work things out and she is your responsibility then would be best to do that.
ok, can she file a case in India and push me to go to India or affect my Indefinite Leave to remain in UK due next year ?
And can I file a divorce petition in UK ?
I am sorry these particular questions you would need to ask an attorney.
I do not know if you got my response about the plane ticket. Did you because I do not see it for some reason.
Ok, Can I file a divorce petition in UK if I am married in India but resident of UK ?
If not I will rewrite it
I got following "This case it may be best to just give her the ticket back. If you see no way to work things out and she is your responsibility then would be best to do that."
I know various places allow you to do a divorece eif in
To do a divorce even if different countries, but
Not sure about uk.
YOu would need to contact an atty to know exactly.
would just ask be able to help me with attorney just now ?
ok what I need to do ? and how much will it cost ?
You can ayou can ask that question same as you did this, but in legal sectionsk that question
can we convert this chat session to legal ? or i will need to start a new session ?
Not sure about pricing. sorry about the typos my chat has not been working well today
We started already you would need to start a new one
All the best to you