yeah i agree with everything.
She has said she isnt with her ex and it was a massive mistake. since i found out she slepy with him on that evening i also realised she text me after...what!!!
Its so hard because literally the day before she turned up with holiday brochures and it was fine. i do think he must have text, she got confused and did what she did.
I am avoiding bumping into her but this feeling is nasty.
so you think i should not even bother texting?
what we had was so good, i just hope if she texts il be strong enough to say no
think her parents may play a part, they hated the age gap
Its just hard to understand how someone can change so quickly really
It is hard when things change so quickly in a relationship. However, it seems that this is a sign of how volatile things are for her in her life right now. And add to that her behavior with contacting you after she slept with her ex and saying she is not in a relationship with him, which does not sound true. That is not a good foundation for a healthy relationship.
You may want to write down what you want to say to her next time she calls. That may make it easier to say goodbye. Or you can write her a text if you feel you cannot tell her verbally. That way, it makes it easier on you. But either way, this is not a good relationship for you. If this is how she is now, she is unlikely to change in the future.
May I help you any further?
Lol! You're welcome. It sounds like you are in a good place with the situation.
My best to you,