I agree. He has been alot more pleasant these last couple of days. He is actually talking with me, but he still isn't kissing/cuddling or telling me he loves me. I feel like this all started when i switched jobs. We used to both work graveyard shift so we were on the same schedule, but back in may i got a new job working mostly days so our schedules are complete opposite.
ok. i am trying so hard to make things right, but i kinda feel like he isnt wanting to put in the effort back. Is this just because he is confused about his feelings or because he has given up?
should i just give him space for a while and let him figure things out? im also nervous about his female friend. Am i just being paranoid, or should i worry about it?
I have asked him that. The other day i was going to stay at my moms because i was very upset and sad, but ended up feeling worse there. when i came home, his truck was here but he was gone and i knew he was with her. I asked him if all this was happening because he found someone else that makes him happy and he said nothing was going on and she was just helping him through it. I still find myself getting extremely nervous. He has an hour for lunch at night and he used to always come home but now he doesnt. Im so afraid he is spending time with her. Im not so much worried about physical cheating, but emotional stuff.
I think i can do that. I guess maybe i am just getting impatient. I love my husband so much and it kills me to think he might not feel the same anymore.
i suppose your right. I feel bad for not trusting him all the time, because he hasn't been dishonest, and i know that makes him feel bad.
Thank you for your help.