The minute he told you that he thinks of you, this means there are still feelings there. That is him telling you he thinks of you so you know that he still cares for you. You broke up two moths ago I am sure due to the fact of your ex-husband. I feel that he needed you to get things straighten out in your ice first before he continues to have a relationship with you. He might have been scared to put his heart out there to get involved and get his heart broken. You moving is showing him that this relationship is over with your ex and you are moving forward with your life. This let's him know that you care about him and want to be with him. But you need to tell him how you feel that you want to be in a relationship with him and you care about him and want to make this work. Explain that things will be different this time. Tell him together you will make a fresh start with no worries. That you both will focus on each other and finding the things that work and don't work. You need to look at what broke you both up and fix that problem. You want to repair the reason for the break up. A relationship is about each person telling each other their wants and needs so that both people understand each other. That they are not quessing what the other one wants.
But if I call him today to wish him happy feast will he be happy?I did text him this morning and he was happy Do you see a future of us togeher?
You should call him today to say Happy birthday it gives you a good reason to tell him you were thinking of him.
You want to show him that you care about him and was thinking about him on his birthday. He will be very happy to hear from you. You could even set up a birthday plan either today or another day.
Tell him you want to take him out for his birthday, it will give you a good reason to see him.
You could set up something and tell him what would be a good day for you both to celebrate his birthday.
Well actually it's not his b'day but his feast day
I would ask him out and see what his response would be.
Today I plucked up courage and first texted him telling him that I wanted to call him yesterday and if I could call him today. Heanswered 2 hrs later saying why I didn't call him and if I wanted I could call him now or this evening......he seemed much better using even a nicname he used with me, he wanted to know abt the moving etc at the end he said to meet up and then we'd call each other
I feel better thank you and really hope that we'll meet up soon
Do you really believe we'll patch things up?
am so scared that it's only friendship he wants
Thank you for insisting that i should call
Thank you for insisting I should call him